Creating Successful Relationships

“Personal relationships are the fertile soil
from which all advancement, all success,
all achievement in real life grows.”
Ben Stein

Creating Successful Relationships

Imagine having renewed relationships with people that matter most in your life and achieving the joy, happiness, intimacy, and fulfillment that we all so desire. In this module we explore how to develop personal choice and freedom at the level of self and in relationship with others as well as how to get to a level of high impact communication skills to better express who you are and what is important to you to the people around you.

“Relationship” is a simple word that hides some of the richest, most complex and significant meanings.
Relationships make us human, they hold our world together. The happiness and quality of our lives depend on them. They make us who we are: our relationships with our parents, our teachers, our clients, our business contacts, friends, family and lovers. Also, throughout our lives we each have a changing relationship with ourselves which makes it easy or hard to be alone.

This course could change your coaching practice, your closest relationships, and the impact you have on the world. We explore how to understand and appreciate our differences, how to promote clearer communication, break down barriers, builds trust, strengthen relationships and open horizons.

Overview of Content

Some of the things you will learn through this course:

Understanding the impact you have on other people
Tailoring your language to reach different people
Presenting ideas to skeptical people
Master the language of influence
Discovering and changing boundaries
The relationship you want
Simple strategies to make your relationship work
Know and understand your conditioned voice
Keys to effective communication
Creating real connection with others
Releasing enmeshment and co-dependence
Listening vs hearing
Methods for “Living happily ever after”
Identifying and responding effectively to the full range of personality types.
Creating rapport
Perception is projection
The danger of mind reading
The art of framing and reframing
Key Metaprogrammes and their influencing language
Presuppositions for effective communications
Intended vs received messages
Backtracking for powerful communication
Get real – Authentic self expression and self revelation
Conflict resolution through the theater of the mind.
Words that change minds.
The relationship problem made simple.
The false core – false self explained.
The merger expectation trap.
The courage and freedom to love.
The platinum rule – responding to peoples map of the world
Managing your energy boundaries. Pushing, pulling or relating.
Alone or All One?
Create strong, flexible personal boundaries.
Build and sustain the trust and safety needed to create healthy relationships.
Emotionally remove yourself from old trauma.
Find your positive purposes and build a reaffirming self image based on deep self appreciation.
Develop the capacity to take a variety of perspectives.

Programme Details

Next Available Dates:

Dates: 17-19 Oct 2009
Time: 0900-1800
Venue: Central London venue to be confirmed
Price: 349,- if attended as a separate unitBook Now

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